Highsexuality: Does Cannabis Make You Gay? The taking T makes you Bi version explained & refuted.

Ok I'd like to start off with the facts that sexuality isn't a hormone level.

The idea that more T makes lesbian women attracted to men is absurd from an evolutionary standpoint, because if it was true heterosexual women would naturally produce more T then lesbians & heterosexual men would be most attracted to the features of balding hairy masculinized women overall for sake of reproducing. Also women with PCOS would be default heterosexual & be the most sought after because what more would heterosexual men want then hypersexual images of heterosexuality.

However this is simply not the case & there is no link between lesbianism & any hormone imbalances. Being exclusively attracted to other women isn’t a T deficiency

No this is simply yet another homophobic theory (much like pregnancy ends lesbians attraction) or that there are drugs can change a persons sexuality entirely like the idea that weed can make men gay. Which is 100% a fear mongering myth spread to keep kids from experimenting with drugs, when actually the only known carvings weed can honestly be linked with has a lot more to do with bags of Cheetos & junk food then men butt fucking each other blaming it on cannabis crying “no homo” the weed made me do it in the mourning.

While yes I’m sure becoming a crack/meth junkie can turn just about anyone into a prostitute willing to sexually do anything outside of acting on their own desires as long as they can afford their next high. I don’t believe for one moment drugs or alcohol changes a persons sexuality though it might lower inhibitions, higher sex drive, cause physical dependency, & lead into altered states of mind where others can take advantage of someone who is clearly not mentally aware & cannot consent.

Let’s address Barsexuality with a song that I think is a great example of it. I think we all know about the most typical example of barsexuality the phenomenon of heterosexual women drinking & deciding to make out with other women soley for the sake of voyeuristic male sexual attention. As a lesbian who worked at a Stripclub for a decade & a 1/2 of course I’m more then aware of these women. Yes I’m most likely the woman they made out with, but the thing is my bi radar is extremely acute so I do very much know when it's just for show & the benefit of the men watching. I mean I did this for a living & it’s very clear to me when it’s never going to go any farther cuz the woman is het which I was more then fine with as I was probably paid for it or simply cuz I enjoyed kissing her in spite knowing the dealio, but like I really understand why most lesbians would be offended & rightfully feel cheated or lead on.

These bi-larping women with no actual sexual interest in women are the most hated & seen as predatory by many les & bi women cuz it is sexually manipulative behavior that is excused by the use of alcohol & the desire to attract men who fetishize lesbian attraction between women as porn for their entertainment & sexual benefit. I’m way more forgiving about it especially when at the strip club, well cuz frankly that is basically the job of every stripper to sell male fantasy. I surely was never above any woman doing just that & sadly there were many cases I even had sex with my female coworkers that I didn't even feel anything for cuz it was part of the job for me. As hypersexual & lustful for women as I am there was def times I just wasn't in the mood or actually attracted to the other dancer in the VIP room where in was understood we were both doing it for show to make money where even if physically I could bring her to O there was a chance she wasn't even bi at all.

However at the same time drinking does lower inhibitions & there are many bisexual women normally would repress their attraction to women, but are 2 shots away from asking for a quikie in the bathroom stall. I often quote the joke about most these women are straight like spaghetti around me cuz know these bisexuals very well & would say these often were the majority of bar/nightclub random hookups I had. While I do enjoy the thrill of bicurious aggressive repressed lust I do know that's all it will ever be even if we run into each other for years in club & we have sex 101 times it's kinda an unwritten rule that what happens in the club stays in the club between us when we both are in the mood kinda thing.

My only problem with that is when I know literally they will blame it on the alcohol & that is why I avoid hooking up with this 1 woman who is always trying to get me drunk cuz I’m positive the attraction has always been there, but the next day she would act like I took advantage when honestly she gets me so blitzed that I dont remember even kissing her & she's spend yrs trying to seduce me while claiming to be super straight. So now it's ezier to avoid her cuz she has a steady bf & is the faithful type so she's not calling me all the time anymore, but damn I’m just really pissed at myself that I let her get me drunk enough where we finally kissed & I have no memory at all of it. But I’m more then glad we didn’t go all the way & I forgot only to have her cuz a dramatic scene over it as I already know that if I ever woke up naked with her that's what would happen. At least I remember the time she & I got got 1/2 naked in the pool of her hotel after the club till the hotel manager kicked us out lol but oh well it was best that everyone went home after that after the club party.

Now of course if someone actually takes advantage of someone who is clearly drunk or drugged out of their best mind, physically impaired, or passed out that is clearly rape & not any sort of expression of a repressed attraction or conscience consent. In the clubs ofcourse we all know about men dropping drugs into women's drinks & so on. But the effects of steriods like T are nothing like a roofy or a woman blackout drunk way pass her limit.

No we are addressing women who take T & begin desiring actively seeking consensual sexually & often romantic relationships with men when prior these women thought of themselves as lesbians & who might even no longer desire sex or relationships w men after quitting the T.

There are many of these anecdotal stories that go around using women like Susan/ Buck or The pissed off lawyer chick that recently came out as bi & many people including lesbians like to believe they were butch lesbians till they injected T. Well I’ll have you know in the case of Susan she was sucking & fucking men way back in the days at the gay clubs & never stopped trying to pretend to be having “gay” PIV sex with men. I get so pissed when any1 thinks she's any sort of lesbian & in the case of Pissed Off Lawyer hello she's in denial of her sex & a CSA victim who obviously a very confused traumatized woman. Why would she be a credible source on her own self id of being an ex lesbian? 1st of all there is no such thing.

See the only sexuality that goes through phases of personal attraction between the two sexes is bisexuality. Bisexuals might always greatly lend one way or the other or switch it up or be doormat & repressed for decades, but the very definition is a person having that sexual attraction to both sexes & it doesn’t have to be to desire both sexes at every moment in your life. I don’t even believe bisexual swingers who have 3somoes with both sexes always are desiring sex with both sexes anymore then a person who likes chocolate & vanilla craves to always get a swirl cone covered with rainbow sprinkles. There might be a rare few that do desire both Jay & Jane the same every time, but let's get real most bisexuals are het partnered for the vast majority of their lives & may even only ever experience a brief period of attraction to the same sex. I’ll give non drug related examples of common doormat/ repressed bi phases might emerge like in prisons, or all girls schools, College dorms. Lesbians often laugh at the experience of those bisexuals who call themselves “gay untill graduation” when they settle down with husband's & have kids w/men.

It’s not that any of those situations turns anyone gay attracted or makes them “temp Bi”, but obviously if the opposite sex is less available & the same sex is closer in proximity many close case bisexuals are going to take it as an opportunity to explore when normally they wouldn’t. However no1 says Prison made them gay cuz the day after they left they desired only opposite sex relationships as they did prior.

Obviously truly het or gay people could be surrounded by the sex they aren't attracted to & not become bi as many het men go to prison & many het women go to all girl schools/women's colleges without the thought of going bi or giving it a try.

I think the reason why so many are desperate to push the narrative that T makes lesbians bi is 1) homophobia especially lesbphobia demands there be a cure & doesn’t understand the concept that a lesbian doesn't ever under any circumstances start truly desiring the dick 2) all women on T are read as starting off butch lesbians even though Susan was always actively bi & many of todays Aidens are totally het women that fetishize gaymen, but looking at them they pass as lesbians more so then men or bihets to most people that incorrectly default gender conformity in women to a butch dyke only thing 3) bisexuality when it comes to women's who prefer women is mistaken as lesbianism 4) many of these bisexuals only felt attraction to man while T induced hypersexuality hit making them act out on repressed/doormat attraction to men & more likely to engage in risker sex so once they stop they want to return into the lesbian community & blame it all on the T to gain acceptance from lesbians who also actually only date women, but tend to want to avoid dating bisexuals.

However No to all of it & I say this as the most notoriously hypersexual lesbian I know that is’nt goldstar & who will work the act of faking bi to my benefit very convincingly so be it for money, or my bar tap, or becuz I want him to hand me his bisexual wife to have my way with, but I’ll will never end up actually fucking a guy in my life again cuz I simply lack any desire in me to. Even before I came out of the closet I knew I was a lez & found less then zero sexual interest in me for men. That reality of my sexuality has never changed. Even when I’ve been blackout levels of drunk & thrown out clubs for getting too off the chain sexually. Drugs & drinking only increase yr natural sex impulses when your sex drive is higher & fewer inhibitions only brings out the more repressed sides of you.

Trust me the very few time I’ve been on instinctual auto pilot levels turned up sure I behaved in ways that were even more wild then regular everyday me would of liked (like for example I had sex w/ Audrey’s sister on stage thinking it was her) & I didn’t even know that I did this till the next day when everyone told me how I hit on all the female bartenders & ended up in the shower w/ 3 strippers cleaning me up cuz I threw up on some dude that whipped his dick out on me & was telling them how I loved Audrey like a song before they sent me home.

Those are how all my blame it on the alcohol or in this case taking 3 green monkey & doing 23 shots that night of Patron stories go. Cuz yes while I totally wasn’t there in my right mind & clearly acting out in ways I was embarrassed about & regretted the next day I still was very much still instinctually me. With all the hardcore partying, drugs, drinking & all the crazy things I did & stripper games I played there was no time even in my wildest of days where wanting dick became a desire of mine. I did fuck countless women who I don’t even remember that even now a decade later come up to me & I got to apologize to them for that or pretend I do remember cuz I obviously had a problem. However that just wasn't the case with any of the men who worked at the club, not a customer, not any random dude only stories of me throwing up on a couple of them that got to pushy & my usual pro stripper/Dom routine kinda evil tease stuff.

So yeah I just roll my eyes at the idea that T would turn a lesbian het attracted. I don’t buy that hypersexuality or risky sex makes any1 bi either cuz there's lesbians like myself & tons of hets that lived the swinger /fetish wild partying lifestyle without it changing our sexuality.

Now that I don’t live like that sure I still have the same wild strike in me & there are times I might fall back into some of my bad habits, but I don’t pretend that it wasn’t me & some totally different person blaming any of it just on cocaine & champagne or the endless supply of everything that was handled to me that I took.

Just the way I don’t for 1 sec believe T made any1 bisexual & sexually desire dick that really wasn’t bi to begin with.

Call me crazy but lots of men take T as they get older & I don’t believe the are all just going gay or bi even if higher sex drives might lead to risker sex & sex with men being ezier to get especially when it's rougher & risker sex they want while on it.

Sure there is a case to be made for those addicted to self harm to get into rougher risker sex with men as part of porn/sex T addiction. However in that wouldn’t be desire driven and it wont make you romantically or sexually attracted to men. No that would be more like the drug addict giving head for their next high kinda thing, but their into the pain or the porn humiliation aspects of it all. None of that would be the case of a person who's sexuality itself changed & when they quit that are like damn how did they do that to themself kinda thing, not a oh my sexuality itself just changed back.

I do think that bisexuals face more issues with confusion about their sexuality and it has been proven that as a community they are more likely to face issues of drug abuse & have risker sex overall then both hets & homosexuals of both sexes. I don’t think it’s bisexuality in itself driven by any of those factors, but cases like Pissed off Laywer who discovered her bisexuality later in life took the trans cult journey after facing CSA & all her deep rooted homophobic issues. Let’s be real there's no way she could of ever accepted herself as a butch lesbian cuz deep down she knew she was never one of us to begin with.

I don’t even think it’s just the T, but so many other issues linked to trooning out that has these repressed bisexuals self iding as gays & lesbians when they are in act either bi or het all along.

My next rant will be on how yes it's mainly us gays/lesbians that get trooned out either by our families as children or by governments that give us no other options, but it's most likely bisexuals who as adults that find trans most appealing. As in many ways trans is a bisexual supermancy movement.

Till then take care & don’t let any woman tell you she's an ex lesbian or a current one that had a dick desiring phase for any reason, cuz that's just crazy. Bisexuality exist & those who find their sexuality swifts & goes through phases are just bis that need to learn to accept it.